- What is the difference between being alone and feeling lonely?
- I know a lot of people and I have a social life, but I actually feel lonely and misunderstood. Why is this happening to me?
- This sadness I feel now that I'm young, this loneliness, will it stay with me for the rest of my life? Is it a problem with my personality?
- I'm ashamed to admit that I feel lonely and I don't know how or where to ask for help.
- How can I tell if my child is alone because they like being alone or because they don't have friends?
- What are the consequences for my teenage daughter of not having friends?
- My daughter has always had plenty of friends, but lately she's started isolating herself and we don't know why. What should we parents do?
- What can I do to avoid feeling lonely?
- How can I overcome my fears and low self-esteem so I can meet people and not feel so alone?
- Can technology help me or does it worsen the feeling of loneliness due to the lack of physical contact with other people?
- How can we help a young person who feels lonely?
- I feel lonely and I'm feeling unwell both physically and emotionally, could this be related?
- I've moved and I'm finding it difficult to connect with people I don't know. Could feeling lonely lead to depression?
- If someone tells us they feel lonely, what should we say and what shouldn't we say?
- How can educators detect if a teenager or young person is suffering from unwanted loneliness?
Can technology help me or does it worsen the feeling of loneliness due to the lack of physical contact with other people?
Like everything in life, it depends. Technology has many positive aspects and can be a good ally in situations of loneliness. For example, it can bring us closer to important people who live far away, and it can put us in contact with people with whom we share interests and motivations, but with whom we don't meet in person.
But at the same time, it can play a less positive role, as it can further isolate us. The social relationships we have through social media , for example, can sometimes be very superficial. Furthermore, we might compare ourselves to others who constantly post pictures on their profiles of themselves with other people and making countless plans, and this can make us feel even more alone.
Feeling lonely is a subjective perception for each individual. We feel lonely when we perceive a mismatch between the quantity and quality of our social relationships and those we would like to have. The quality of social relationships can be diminished, in some cases, by how we communicate through new technologies. Conversely, the number of social relationships we can establish multiplies thanks to them.
It's important that the social relationships we establish, both online and offline, are of high quality . If they are, even if sometimes mediated by new technologies, we're sure not to feel alone.
We must also ensure that social isolation does not arise due to technology use. This situation is different from loneliness and occurs when a person's social network is very small, too far away, or lacks the confidence to turn to it when needed. Maintaining face-to-face relationships, and not just those in the virtual world, remains essential.