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After a medication overdose, what can parents do if their daughter continues to have suicidal thoughts?

Francisco Villar Cabeza
Dr. Francisco Villar Cabeza
Clinical Psychologist. Coordinator of the Care Program for Suicidal Behaviours in Minors
Hospital Sant Joan de Déu Barcelona

The recovery processes from suicidal crises are individual, but they also have common elements; we try to address these latter elements in the response.

We understand that suicidal crises occur within the context of a life crisis. Therefore, we know that the risk of suicide remains until the life crisis is resolved . For this reason, we recommend that safety measures be maintained throughout the life crisis and for one year after its resolution.

It is important to incorporate these safety measures into family routines:

  • Deprive access to medication (we recommend keeping all medication in the home locked up) and monitor its use and ensure adherence to drug treatment.
  • Remain more available and attentive to the presence of potential crises.
  • Encourage compliance with her psychological and pharmacological treatment , ensure that she attends follow-up visits, and maintain good communication with her daughter's therapist and with the school (if she is able to attend at this time).
  • To give him hope.
  • Recognize and explain to her that adolescence is a tough stage, but that everything that comes after is much better, that it's not a problem if she doesn't know what to do in the future, if she doesn't know what she wants, if she's confused, because all those things in adolescence are not a problem, they are precisely the questions that need to be answered in the coming years, not at that moment.
  • Let her know that her discomfort will not overwhelm the family , that you are where you want to be, by her side, in good times and not-so-good times.
  • Encourage your daughter's involvement in groups, activities, with peers, and within the family.

It's likely that during this process, you'll feel confused and overwhelmed at some point. You might do something you don't think is right, or something your daughter criticizes you for. This is perfectly normal, and she'll need to understand that it's not about doing everything perfectly, that we all make mistakes, but about getting back up with humility, with compassion for yourself, and continuing to try.

When your daughter tells you, "I'm still not okay, I don't feel ready yet," you should tell her, "We know, and we'll be here for you until you are." With her progress, therapy, and your support, she will gradually be able to identify the situations that overwhelm her and increase her resources for coping with them.

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Francisco Villar Cabeza
Dr. Francisco Villar Cabeza
Clinical Psychologist. Coordinator of the Care Program for Suicidal Behaviours in Minors
Hospital Sant Joan de Déu Barcelona
Cecilia Borrás
Cecilia Borrás
Psychologist. Founding President
Después del Suicidio – Asociación de Supervivientes (DSAS)