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If we suspect our son or daughter is smoking marijuana, how can we address the issue at home and what advice can we give them?

Maribel Serra
Maribel Serra Candell
Clinical psychologist. Head of the Projects and Programs Subsection.
Centre SPOTT. Diputació de Barcelona

From within the family, one can observe changes in behavior , habits, and daily routines. Continuous observation is the best tool for detecting drug use, but it shouldn't be a police-like approach. Searching their belongings can provoke resistance and anger. It's important not to rush to conclusions; the issue should be addressed calmly and without alarmism, with concern, but with a collaborative and thoughtful attitude, avoiding confrontation.

What should we do if we notice our child using cannabis?

  • Try to remain calm by facilitating a climate of communication.
  • Do not judge, reproach, or dramatize.
  • To understand the circumstances and reasons that led to consumption.
  • Do not bring up the subject if we suspect that he has used drugs.
  • To express our opinion on this matter openly.
  • Don't make hasty decisions.
  • Offer to collaborate and seek specialized professional advice.
  • Maintain a firm attitude; do not convey an attitude of failure or defeat.

What topics can we talk about?

  • Regarding their consumption pattern.
  • Regarding when consumption began.
  • The reasons for starting to consume.
  • If friendships also consume.
  • If you consider the risks of consumption.

Drugs are not a problem. They are a bad solution to a problem. Juan Antonio Marina, philosopher.

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Maribel Serra
Maribel Serra Candell
Clinical psychologist. Head of the Projects and Programs Subsection.
Centre SPOTT. Diputació de Barcelona