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What can we do when a person speaks rudely to us and triggers psychotic symptoms when we don't agree with them or when they don't get what they want?

Rosa García Toldrà
Rosa María García Toldrà
Mental health activist. Board member.
Associació Salut Mental Baix Llobregat
Trini Peláez
Trini Peláez Martínez
Psychologist. Early intervention program for psychosis. CSMA Ripollet
Parc Sanitari Sant Joan de Déu

Having a mental health diagnosis doesn't explain all of a person's behaviors or attitudes. Everyone has their own personality, temperament, and way of coping with problems, and this is a characteristic of the person; it doesn't necessarily have to be related to the diagnosis.

That said, and without knowing the situation in detail, people can sometimes hide behind a diagnosis to assert their demands, whether it's for money, to do whatever they want, your time, to spend hours and hours playing on the computer, to come and go as they please, and a long list of other possibilities. Therefore, it would be necessary to first determine if their demands are directed in a specific way or if they are simply demanding for the sake of demanding.

In any case, we have the right to set boundaries with other people when we feel bad in a relationship. It's true that I might say horrible things about the people I love most, and I, personally, if I ever did, would appreciate it if they set boundaries with me, even if I didn't understand or accept them. Setting boundaries with others is a one-way street.

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Rosa García Toldrà
Rosa María García Toldrà
Mental health activist. Board member.
Associació Salut Mental Baix Llobregat
Trini Peláez
Trini Peláez Martínez
Psychologist. Early intervention program for psychosis. CSMA Ripollet
Parc Sanitari Sant Joan de Déu