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My mother is 85 years old and lives with me. How can I help her cope with the idea that one day she will die and leave me alone?

Juan Manuel Mendive
Dr. Juan Manuel Mendive Arbeloa
General Practitioner. Centro de Atención Primaria La Mina
Institut Català de la Salut (ICS)

What she describes is a very human reaction. I think her mother isn't the only one feeling sadness about a separation that will come as a natural part of life. That's why it's so important to make each day an opportunity. To tell each other every day how much they enjoy living together and to remember the many wonderful moments they've shared. Her mother will find peace knowing that her life has been worthwhile, and her daughter will keep her memory alive. If there are no other factors to consider, this feeling of sadness wouldn't be enough to call it depression.

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Juan Manuel Mendive
Dr. Juan Manuel Mendive Arbeloa
General Practitioner. Centro de Atención Primaria La Mina
Institut Català de la Salut (ICS)