In the book Living Between Screens you are committed to supporting young people in digitalization using common sense. What should this support be like?
Jordi Bernabeu: "In the book we try to give arguments so that everyone can accompany within the framework of their circumstances, their points of view, but with the aim of having a criterion behind it, a meaning. We are committed to personalizing the accompaniments depending on the person, whether or not there is a mental health disorder, and depending on the uses. Of course, regulatory frameworks are needed that must serve everyone, but in this case it is not about establishing general guidelines, but about applying criteria to the reality around you. Accompanying is not about giving your child a hundred euros the first day he goes out partying and saying "you'll be back", but rather, gradually introducing your suffering into his autonomy."
We try to provide arguments so that everyone can support us within the framework of their circumstances, their points of view, but with the aim of having a criterion behind it, a meaning.
Josep Lluís Matalí: "What we want to convey is that the best prescriber is you, if you have training, since there is no one who knows your reality better than you. Since we have an accelerated life, sometimes it is easier for us to be given guidelines, but it will be much more useful for you to set the criteria yourself, adjusted to the reality of your family. Given this, we have found it more interesting not to look for magic recipes, but to look for reflections, so that you can have elements that help you decide what to do with digitality in your home. I will not tell you "from nine o'clock, you take away your child's mobile phone", because there are very different realities, and perhaps that child from nine o'clock can talk to his mother or father, who lives in another house. But I will tell you that exposure to screens alters melatonin secretion and that sleep problems will increase, and that is why the recommendation is that they should not be used an hour before going to bed. To be a good self-prescriber we must have knowledge and a critical sense; be aware, for example, of what infinite scrolling or the personalized algorithm of some social networks means, or that video games are designed to perpetuate behaviors and that there are some properties, such as loot boxes, that with more vulnerable boys and girls can be a trigger for pathological gambling and the risks it entails.
Family, school and community prevention in the use of screens