- I've noticed that my son sometimes comes home from out with his friends at night and has been drinking alcohol. For now, I'm pretending not to notice. Should I continue like this, or should I talk to him?
- How can I explain to my daughter that it's not good to drink alcohol when we drink wine and beer at home?
- Can I tell my children that I understand they drink, but that they should do so in moderation, or is it better to tell them not to drink at all?
- I have a 14-year-old daughter, and I've seen more than one of her friends pass out from alcohol. But when we talk about it, she doesn't see how serious it is. How can I make her understand the seriousness of alcohol consumption, especially when it's excessive?
- Is it advisable for adults to buy alcohol for our children so they don't secretly buy the cheapest and most harmful kind?
- I'm a teacher and I've noticed that a 16-year-old student who is experiencing a very recent loss is drinking alcohol. How can I help her?
- Are there any training or prevention programs on alcohol consumption for schools in Catalonia?
- What signs can tell us that a teenager really has a problem with alcohol consumption?
- What can I do if I know my teenage son is abusing alcohol, but he doesn't listen to me?
- Should I allow my daughter to have parties at home with friends where I know they consume alcohol?
- At what age and how can we start talking to our children about alcohol?
- Any guidelines or tips for prevention from home?
- Should we allow minors in the family to drink wine or cava on special occasions like Christmas or birthdays?
- Should advertising of alcoholic beverages be banned in establishments, supermarkets and bars?
At what age and how can we start talking to our children about alcohol?
In short: the sooner the better , knowing that it is never too late, as long as they have the capacity to understand what we are talking about.
In a slightly more extended way, and focusing on the how, perhaps one can start by talking about other important things such as the skills to set limits, the management of emotions and feelings, the different risks according to age to exposure to other situations (driving, having a profile on social networks…), and then, as they get older, talk about other things such as peer pressure, social skills for interpersonal relationships or assertive communication, until finally introducing specific information about alcohol or the management of problems and conflicts.
In any case, we believe it's important to be clear about the objectives when speaking with them, depending on their prior experience with alcohol. That is, if they haven't yet tried it: reinforce the idea and decision not to consume alcohol, try to delay the age of initiation as much as possible, and work on self-awareness, especially regarding health aspects, particularly those that could be relevant if they do consume alcohol (illnesses or other health conditions, medication that might interact, etc.).
If they've already tried it , or rather, if they already consume it more or less regularly, a harm reduction approach might be more appropriate in this case. Ensuring that, if they decide to consume alcohol, they do so in the least harmful way for themselves and those around them can be a good intervention.